If you have any uncertainty about someone's safety, what question should you calmly but directly ask?

• A. Are you thinking of killing/hurting yourself?
• B. Do you feel safe?
• C. Are you okay?
• D. Would you like to talk?

Answer: (A)

When you’re uncertain about someone’s safety, asking a direct, specific question about self-harm is the most effective way to assess risk right away. A straightforward prompt like this communicates seriousness, reduces ambiguity, and gives the person a clear space to disclose if they’re thinking about harming themselves. Vague checks—asking if they feel safe, if they’re okay in general, or if they’d like to talk—don’t directly address the danger and can miss or delay crucial information about imminent risk.

If the person indicates they are thinking about harming themselves, respond with calm, non-judgmental support and seek professional help immediately. If there’s immediate danger, contact emergency services and stay with them.